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May 9, 2012

Putting Your Best Foot Forward

There was once a time when online dating or discovering a romantic connection over the Internet was something of a curiosity that carried a bit of a social edginess, if not a stigma, to it. Remember You Got Mail when Meg Ryan’s character confessed to having developed feelings for someone she met-gasp!-online? How she buried her face in a pillow totally mortified admitting that she was falling for someone based on a bunch of emails? After all, can you really know a person based on emails and chats online?

Maybe not totally, but online dating affords a person a sense of freedom to have his or her character truly shine through – something that may be a bit more challenging to manage with offline dating what with the tendency of people to develop preconceptions about a person based on how one looks like or their circumstances at a given moment.

Online dating lets you put your best foot-best photo, best witty lines, best smile-forward. And why shouldn’t you? It isn’t so much as hiding what you consider to be your less-than-ideal features but more of showcasing what positive things you have to offer. If you think about it, it’s really not that much different from the effort we put into choosing our clothes and makeup, or working out at the gym. We want to bring out the best in us – and online dating makes it just that much easier to do so.

Online dating affords you freedom to be what you truly are and a wealth of possibilities to find a truly satisfying relationship; if you’re willing to put a little effort into it by finding the best dating sites that fit you, filling our a profile our two, being present in chat, etc. Now that online dating is the preferred way of meeting people for romance, sex, friendships it is more of a stigma not to be looking online and something to truly not be so proud of if you are not participating in.

May 4, 2012

What Exactly Is Asian Dating?

by connor — Categories: Asian dating, Asian women — Tags: asian dating experience, asian lady — Leave a comment

We could probably all fill more volumes with what we don’t know then with what we do. The prejudices and stereotypes that grow and fester from what we assume or even fantasize about best all good common sense when we finally come face-to-face with that which we have either always dreamed about or feared. And God knows, the more foreign something is to us the more mysterious it will stay most times.

This is how we come to invest all manner of assumptions into things like gay sex, when we are resolutely hetero and never take the time to even consider the fact that gay men and women are basically men and women, human beings just like we are. Or we become unreasonably titillated by something like dating a BBW when we might never have before or are all agog over Asian dating when we might happen to be Caucasian and have never had the occasion to have had a liaison with an Asian lady or man.

In the case of separations created by race, creed or color, God knows there are a whole host of misnomers we can come up against; there is a lot to dislike, fear or simply wonder about facing someone with a different face, skin color, language or customs then us. This is why for so many Westerners who have never had an Asian dating experience simply because they are from the west and Asian people come from the east-at least originally-there are so many mysteries and rumors. And this is how clichés build up, why so many porn images are of a certain specific stripe and why, time and again, when the cultures or people do meet, date, maybe even actually exchange some healthy moments of education about one another we all learn time and again the one indisputable fact of life…all people really are just, people and are all pretty much the same.

Asian dating is certainly no different than any other kind of dating.

April 4, 2012

It Doesn’t All Work, All Of The Time

by connor — Categories: Adult dating, Asian dating, Online dating, Singles — Tags: asian personals, libido, profiles and personals — Leave a comment

Not every single thing that sees us gather and gain success in our Asian personals dating is always going to work one hundred percent of the time. We might find unprecedented attention across a dating site or two, for such a prolonged period of time we come to think there is no other place for us to go to find dates, but rest assured, sometime you’ll hit a dry spell online. We might frequent a club so much we are considered a regular and find such regular dating finds there our procuring becomes legendary, but a night will come when we score no numbers or nobody buys us a drink! We might be able to attract a certain type 9 times out of 10 and use our wiles to do so, but there will come that one yuppie or Asian lady doesn’t find you as hot as all the yuppies or Asian women did before…or at least the one’s you think did.

Where ever we go and whatever we do that brings us adult dating success is bound to be fallible.

That’s why in adult dating we need to keep moving, learning, morphing and slipping and sliding. We need to listen to advice as much as ignore it, listen to our own hearts as much as our heads and tempt it all with a good dose of what our libido is pushing us to do. And we need, in the end, to not get mired or frustrated on any one aspect of this wacky game called human interaction.

Personals and profiles, speed dating, hanging out at the mall, letting a buddy fix us up, playing the field or culling it online or in the clubs we go to, what works for us once doesn’t always work for us a second time and we can go for decades with a unblemished record then find one day we hit a wall with how, where and who we usually date. There is just no rhyme and reason to why adult dating flows the way it does, but flow it surely will, uphill and down.

March 30, 2012

The WTF In Adult Dating

by connor — Categories: Adult dating, Online dating, Singles — Tags: adult dating, romance, single people — Leave a comment

There is no accounting for the amount of time we are going to be smacked full force in the face with something we neither understand or never saw coming in our adult dating. People are the ultimate puzzle and trying to get along with them, and they you, from friendships to maintaining a romantic relationship with someone is truly an impossible circumstance even in the best of times. Things can seemingly be going along swimmingly, or two people might be working hard to make their relationship work and still they can get blindsided by what they themselves never saw coming.

This is why we shouldn’t be surprised to find ourselves looking at someone we might have been in a relationship with for years and saying to ourselves in the face of some deed or speech they give us, what-the-fuck? Just when we think we might know someone, just when we feel we have seen every eventuality in a romance come down the pike, quite often we are still gob smacked by what we find our partner can say or do.

Nowhere is this truer in our adult dating then in the arena of sex. When it comes to what our nasty little brains are capable of imagining and what our bodies can heat us to do rest assured that time and time again single people, even long time married partner will be pretty damned surprised at what our partner might request in bed from time to time. The capricious wind never blows harder than it does round the windmills of our sexual minds.

How many partners do you hear bemoan the fact that they never knew their husband or wife was cheating, never knew someone wanted a divorce, that someone never knew that there partner was actually gay or hetero! It happens all the time that we are simply rocked back on our heels in our long-term romances or adult dating so much so all we can say is what-the-fuck.

March 14, 2012

What Lies Beneath

by connor — Categories: Adult dating, Sex, Singles — Tags: dating someone, underwear — Leave a comment

In the dating world, there are so many things that can be the straw that breaks the camel’s back. Many people are extremely particular about every little nitty bitty thing about those they are dating. Many are given pink slips after just one date due to unbelievably insignificant things, though they are clearly not insignificant to everyone. The length of someone’s nails, the way they chew, the way they dress, their penmanship, the list goes on and on. Then you have the troubling issue of underwear. What people wear underneath their clothes is a topic of immense concern to a lot of people, male and female. Dating someone who wears the wrong genital-covering undergarment is simply not an option for some.

Sex is the natural progression of dating someone, though in today’s world it is often the other way around. And underwear is all about sex. Underwear is supposed to look good on you. It should be something to lure in sexual conquests. Otherwise, people should just wrap plastic bags around their waist underneath their clothes if there is no aesthetically pleasing reason for underwear. Now some people who have not been dating for a while may say that they never gave a moment’s thought to their underwear’s attractiveness, which is not a valid reason. Even people without partners should be wearing underwear that makes them feel good and confident when they look in the mirror.

Indeed, the biggest problem may be that too many people do not realistically observe themselves in full length mirrors. If they did, they would take off the unflattering tighty whiteys and bloomers and wear something that makes people want to have sex with them. Taking off your clothes to reveal your underwear when you first have sex should not be something that makes the person you are dating wince. Even seeing a guy’s underwear waistband if his shirt hikes up can be hot to a chick, so these things totally matter. It says a lot about how you view yourself.

March 8, 2012

Asian Focus

by connor — Categories: Asian dating, Asian women, Online dating — Tags: asian personals, sex — Leave a comment

It really is a wonder how everyone survived before the Internet came along. Life is easier in almost every imaginable way by just clicking away on a keyboard. Certainly, when it comes to seeking relationships and sex, the internet has opened up our world in quite an extreme fashion. Back in the ancient times of some twenty years ago, if you wanted hookups of any kind, you had to actually exert yourself and leave the house to go to a bar, club, bowling alley or any other place that people mingle. Today, though, you just need to open your laptop in your own living room and hop on any of the myriad online dating sites to find another person to warm your heart or bed. A lot of sites are pretty broad, but some are very specific. For instance, there are several that focus solely on Asians if they are your particular cup of tea.

Though there are certainly some people who are attracted to all sorts of different types, most people tend to zero in on one very particular type of look early on in their formative sexual years. These people will then stick with it until they hit pay dirt and find the magical one with whom they stay with until death due them part. Type can pertain to a certain hair or eye color, height or weight, dimples, tattoos, piercings, and on and on it goes. And it can also pertain to ethnicities such as Asians. The great thing about online dating is that everyone is represented, Asians and their admirers having multiple places to find each other.

Whether you are Asian yourself and only looking to date within your own ethnic group, or a shy white guy who finally decides to spice up his sex life, online dating is where to go to find Asian personals into all sorts of things. Mild or wild, man or woman, young or middle-aged, online dating has the Asian scene covered.

February 14, 2012

Who Pays?

by connor — Categories: Adult dating, Asian dating, Singles — Tags: dating, first date, relationship — Leave a comment

A lot has changed with dating in some ways, but in other ways, so much has not changed. A lot of guys don’t realize this and kind of shoot themselves in the foot when they take a lady out.

Many guys these days seem to think that it’s okay to expect a lady to split the check on a first date. They think the date was great and then seem kind of bewildered that the lady has no interest in going on a second date. No matter what changes have happened in the dating world thus far, most women still expect a guy to pay for the first few dates. That may seem to be an antiquated way of thinking, but for a lot of women it shows a guy’s level of interest in a real relationship. Even if a lady offers to split it or leave the tip, quite often this is just a test to see what the guy say. A smart man who wants to see the lady again will thank her but decline. There’s nothing wrong with choosing a restaurant that is affordable, of course. Pick a place where it won’t be a problem to pick up the tab.

Once things move past the third date or so, it’s acceptable to start allowing the lady to pay or split the check sometimes, unless the gentleman is in considerably better financial shape than the lady in question. She’ll most likely do nice things like cook him a nice dinner once in a while or bring in takeout for an evening at home. That’s acceptable. It’s nice for the gentleman to show up with a nice bottle of wine or their favorite alcohol for evenings at home. When things are on a more even footing financially, a lady with any class will let the guy know that she likes him and wants to keep seeing him, but doesn’t expect him to continue to foot the bill for every date.

February 9, 2012

Competition

by connor — Categories: Adult dating, Asian dating, Hookup, Sex — Tags: competition, sex — Leave a comment

There are many strong willed women who love a good Match as well as any man. They have to rely on their intellect in order to Match up against all the men looking to get some pussy from them. They need to be smart as well as quick on their feet. They understand the primal drive for competition and victory.

This doesn’t always mean that a woman is a physical fighter but more often than not she is a mental fighter. She is well able to deal with all the tricks men use to try and satisfy their sex drives. She will have heard the lines and the tricks men pull. She will have furthermore learned ways to turn their efforts against them. When she meets a man who is a Match for her it excites her. It makes her want to know more about him and his abilities. She wants to see if he has what it takes to get passed her defenses and undermine her strengths. If he can she will know she has found a suitor worth being with. She will then be able to feel more secure and confident that she has made the right choice in life. She will likely want to keep such a man and marry him. Then she can combine her strength with his and together they can become a true force to be reckoned with.

Whatever their goals and ambitions are they are sure to meet them because they know together they are better than they are apart. When one has gone through the struggles to be the best they can be they do not want to mix and mingle with someone who doesn’t reach their standards. They believe they are the best they can be and they want nothing less in a partner. That is the key. They want a partner as well as a lover and romantic interest. They want everything and they mean to get it.

January 24, 2012

It’s For More Than Just Sex

by connor — Categories: Adult dating, Asian women, Online dating, Sex, Singles — Tags: adult personals, Asian women — Leave a comment

If a guy is looking for XXX dating, the internet can provide him with plenty of places to find whatever he may be looking for. There are all kinds of specialty sites, from finding Asian women, to locating single BBWs or anything else a guy may be looking for. Adult personals allow people of any gender, orientation or interest to find others who are interested in the same things.

No matter what a person is looking for, it’s possible to find it online. There are interest-specific dating sites for any interest. There are interest-specific sites for sex hookups and social networking as well. Thirty years ago, few people would have imagined how easy it would be to meet and get to know people all over the world. It was unfathomable that we might one day make friends in foreign countries around the globe, that we might be able to work from home for a global company and never actually see the inside of our office or that we might one day have a handheld device, such as our smart phones, that would allow us to talk to people anywhere on earth and actually see their face while we were talking. That was the stuff of science fiction movies and books, but many people didn’t think they’d see it in their lifetime.

Now we have voice recognition capabilities that are so good that we can speak conversationally and the software will be able to decipher what we are saying. It’s so intelligent that it can ask us appropriate questions in order to get enough information to complete the task that we’re requesting. This is a huge accomplishment in technology, and it’s going to be an enormous help to older people as well as anyone with sight problems who may have difficulty typing on a smart phone. The internet and all of our technology is great for sex and dating, but that isn’t all it’s good for.

January 19, 2012

Know What You Want

by connor — Categories: Adult dating, Hookup, Online dating, Sex, Singles — Tags: booty call, dating relationship, sex — Leave a comment

XXX dating can take on some different forms so people should try to have a clear picture of what they’re really looking for when they sign up for the XXX personals to look for sex partners.

It makes a difference if a person is looking for a real dating relationship, even if it’s a casual relationship with no strings or commitments. Maybe they want to date other people and have multiple partners. It’s nice to have steady partners that we see on specific nights every week. Dating implies that there is more than just sex – the two people can do activities together, have dinner, be each other’s dates for social engagements and also have sex. There are other relationships that are even more casual and just involve sex with no dating. The two people would get together for a fun fling sometimes, maybe on a set night every week and maybe not. They wouldn’t be activity partners, they would just get together at one or the other’s home or possibly a hotel and just have wild sex and a few laughs and call it a night.

For other people, a booty call is all they really want. They want to be able to call each other at 1 am and see if the other person is busy. If not, they get together and have a rocking good time with some hot sex and then they wouldn’t see each other or get in touch with each other until the next time one needs sex. This works great as long as neither is hoping that it will turn into something more. If either hopes the other will eventually change and want more, they are setting themselves up for a disappointment. If both parties can handle the boundaries though, this can be a fun relationship and a great way to get laid once in a while. Knowing what the expectation is makes it much easier to find the right partner who seeks the same thing.

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